13. How were you treated any worse than the other churches, except that I did not bother you for financial help? Please forgive me for being so unfair!
14. This is now the third time that I am ready to come to visit you — and I will not make any demands on you. It is you I want, not your money. After all, children should not have to provide for their parents, but parents should provide for their children.
15. I will be glad to spend all I have, and myself as well, in order to help you. Will you love me less because I love you so much?
16. You will agree, then, that I was not a burden to you. But someone will say that I was crafty, and trapped you with lies.
17. How? Did I take advantage of you through any of the messengers I sent?
18. I begged Titus to go, and I sent the other Christian brother with him. Would you say that Titus took advantage of you? Do he and I not act from the very same motives and behave in the same way?